To put it more succinctly (in the words of Jimmy Buffett):

Wasted away again in Margaritaville,
Searchin' for my lost shaker of salt.
Some people claim that there's a woman to blame,
Now I think,-- hell it could be my fault.

Ric

At 03:36 PM 11/10/01 -0800, Ram�n Celaya wrote:
>Silly, you men-so very adept
>at wrongly faulting womankind,
>not seeing you're alone to blame
>for faults you plant in woman's mind.
>
>  After you've won by urgent plea
>the right to tarnish her good name,
>you still expect her to behave--
>you, that coaxed her into shame.
>
>  You batter her resistance down
>and then, all righteousness, proclaim
>that feminine frivolity,
>not your persistence, is to blame.

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