

| Subject: | Re: I get no respect |
| From: | Jim Felder |
| Date: | Sun, 4 Apr 2004 14:21:05 -0500 |
Good grief. Where do you people live that get this kind of treatment by other drivers? Jim On Apr 4, 2004, at 2:05 PM, Jeff Oxroad wrote: > In a message dated 4/4/2004 10:09:45 AM Pacific Daylight Time, > Dieselslave@WMCONNECT.COM writes: > > >> Just as a rusty old Pinto attracts police like a donut shop, the >> Vanagon >> seems to enlist other drivers to speed up and tailgate, give the the >> quick >> pass >> then get in front of you, invoke the horn or even the 'finger'. I >> have even >> found a bunch of repeat offenders or 'regulars' as I call them. (I >> hope it's >> not my driving) I take it all in stride and get a good laugh on the >> way to >> work >> every morning. They should know it's a Vanagon, not a NASCAR. >> In my opinion I don't think the older air-cooled vans get >> disrespected by >> the general gum-chewing public as much as the Vanagon. >> I get no respect. >> > > I'm sure many of us driving a bus suffer the same fate. You have to > wonder > about these people who are in such a hurry to get around you to have > you pull up > right behind them--or better--next to them at the next light. Really > it's > sad, because clearly it's not actually about getting there faster, > it's some kind > of deep-seeded self-hatred that fuels their actions and manifests > itself when > forward motion gets slowed-- if only for a moment in a cosmic sense. I > think > they called it projection in college--blaming your own problems on > someone or > something else, or finding fault in others to conceal your own > maladity, the > eternalization of blame, guilt, or responsibility as a defense against > anxiety. > I want to help these people--in such a hurry to get away from > themselves-- > live a happier life. My bumper sticker would say: > > "It's nothing personal. It's just slow." > > I just feel so bad for those people with their projection, flipping me > off > and and screaming at their rear view mirror once they've passed. > Everyone knows > the healthy way to deal with life is with sublimination and denial. > When will > they learn? > > Although I have to say I think driving a bus is a way of life. A kind > of "I'm > happy where I am right now," rather than an "are we there yet," or > "I've > gotta get somewhere else" attitude. I base this on the fact that when > driving my > remarkably clean VW Fox which has plenty of power, a five speed manual > transmission, a sporty design, and a GTI steering wheel, people still > pass me, scream > at their rear view mirror, and give me the finger. I just smile at > them when I > catch up at the next light pretending everything is good and nothing is > wrong. Could be I'm right. > > I'm sure glad I'm not them. > Best, > Jeff > 83.5 Westy > LA,CA >
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