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> #5 son's name is Spencer Peter Steele...  had to put the P. in the middle...
> Wifie would NOT allow his first name to be Peter!
> At two years old, he answers quicker to and refers to himself as Pete.

Now hang on there one ding dang minute Stephen!  Are you telling me that if your son adopts his middle name for usage instead of his first name, then he'll might be filling out forms as "Steele, Peter"?   Ohhhh, I'm tellin!

Jeff