>I understand that the fuel hose clamp has a little flair on the sides,
>to not damage the line by digging in deep when tightened.
>I can't find it anywhere in the stores.  Tried online but did not find any
yet.
>Maybe one of you know where I get them.
yup sure is a PITA to get those aba stainless steel fi clamps
http://www.ultimategarage.com/abaprice.html
ABA 304 Mini Clamp (13-15.3mm)(15/32-39/64")
you also gotta buy a few 50/$60 or 10/$14 + shipping
but they will be last clamps you ever need vanagon wise :)

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http://www.ratwell.com/technical/FuelHoses.html