You have my deepest sympathies Malcolm

Chris Gronski
On Dec 7, 2007 7:35 PM, Malcolm Stebbins <mwstebbins@yahoo.com> wrote:

> Please forgive me, but on Fridays we sometimes share personal issues on
> this vanagon list as over
> the many years, we have become like family.
>
> It is with great sadness, I inform you all that after a 16 month battle
> with cancer, my wife
> Patricia Baker died last Saturday evening at the palliative care unit of
> Halifax's Victoria
> General Hospital.  She died peacefully, surrounded by family and friends.
>  She was 52!
>
> As all who knew Pat will understand, she showed great strength of
> character throughout this whole
> ordeal; never angry, never bitter, always accommodating, and always
> thinking of others needs
> before her own.  Patricia will be greatly missed by many people.
>
> Patricia was smart (4.0 GPA for all of her Bachelor's, Master's and
> Doctorate degrees), well
> respected professionally (awarded the Sarah Shorten award by our Canadian
> Assoc. of University
> Teachers), she was 3 year president of our University Faculty Assoc. and a
> published author. She
> was kind, loving, selfless, self-deprecating, and absolutely scrupulous.
>  We had one of those rare
> 'soul-mate' or 'kindred spirit' relationships that most people can only
> hope for.
>
> For this list; Pat took to Westy camping like a duck to water. During our
> 16 years together, she
> was with me through 2 vans:  a 1986 French syncro westy that we bought in
> Morocco and drove all
> over Morocco and 3 trips throughout Europe.  Then came my 1991 syncro
> westy that we shipped to
> Egypt and, during the year that we were there, drove all over Egypt. As if
> that was not enough, we
> then drove the van from Cairo to Amsterdam; though Jordan, Syria, Turkey,
> Greece, and up through
> Europe, 11 weeks and 10,000 kms.  We also made 2 Canadian coast-to-coast
> trips.
>
> As a visual tribute to Pat, there are a few photos at:
> http://picasaweb.google.com/mstebbins/PresentPat  Some are of Pat & the
> vans.
>
> I thought long and hard about posting this, and I realized that what I
> really wanted to say is
> that next time your van breaks down, don`t get angry, at least wife is
> THERE to yell at you.  :-)
>
>
> Malcolm (Halifax, NS)
>
>
>
>
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