Ooops, here are the comments/photos;

Photo11 - hard to see but tranny cooler connects via rubber "T" hose off of coolant tower and into hose between long radiator pipe and thermostat housing.
http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj285/baboonia/autocoolantpipes/coolantpipes11.jpg

Photo12 - Rubber T going off of big hose to tranny cooler.  Notice nipple on engine bay side for #1 cylinder uses right cutout of firewall.
http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj285/baboonia/autocoolantpipes/coolantpipes12.jpg

Photo13 - replacement coolant tower.   Part 251-121-438A
Notice 2 small nipples behind firewall.  One for heater?  One for tranny cooler??  Also nipple for cylinder #1 hose is now on left cutout of firewall.
http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj285/baboonia/autocoolantpipes/coolantpipes13.jpg