

| Subject: | Re: Snarky and in-groupish |
| From: | Roger Whittaker |
| Date: | Mon, 8 Nov 2010 15:39:24 -0800 |
Dear One of Us please view the following u tube form my favorite movie ... one of us indeed ... i love my westie ... a whole bunch yours On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 12:52 PM, Jarrett Anthony Kupcinski < kupcinski@gmail.com> wrote: > When I tell people about the list, they shake their heads and mutter > something about, "you vw nuts." It is hard to get most people to understand > the camaraderie that exists between Vanagon owners. After all, "it's just a > car." We, of course, know better. > > What I thought was interesting is that when Mark posted his thoughts, > people jumped to the defense of the list pretty quickly. That's cool. What > wasn't so cool was that by way of defense many people referred to some other > list or group which is or was far worse than anything you might see here on > the Vanagon list. Or that we used to be worse, but now we're better. See, we > only beat you half as much as we did in yesteryear. That may be true, but it > doesn't make the chastisement or snarkiness right. > > I work in a pediatric clinic. It's hard to take every single parent's > concerns seriously because some people are uneducated, some are overly > needy, and some are, well, not the sharpest tools in the shed. But they call > us when their problems are bigger than they are, and so we respond. > Compassionately. Because they called us. > > When someone writes to the list with a concern or a problem, it's probably > because their problems are bigger than they are. We would do well to > remember that sometimes. And the person who writes to the list might be > inexperienced, lazy, or stupid, BUT they drive a Vanagon. That makes them, > for better or worse, one of us, and we would do well remember the spirit of > community which brought us here in the first place. > > (Disclaimers: I like the list a lot. I really do talk about you guys to my > non-vw friends. I think the admins do an amazing job of herding the wild > bunch which makes up this group. I like the sense of humor which is often > shared by vanagon owners which tends to be dry and sarcastic. I think most > people on the list do try to be helpful and compassionate most of the time. > I do think the list has gotten better. I don't think Mark Hineline is > inexperienced, lazy, or stupid.) > > And though the list is better than it used to be, and better than most, > there's no reason we can't be even better than we are now. I would invite > the group to look at Mark's comments not as calling for a fight, but rather > as an invitation to look in the mirror and make sure we're doing the best we > can. > > -Jarrett > 89 Westy, Oly > On Nov 8, 2010, at 1:29 PM, Joe T. wrote: > > > I think this group is somewhat curmudgeonly, but that's part of the > appeal! > > I'm a member of several groups on a range of different subjects, and > overall > > I can say that this one takes care of their own more than any other that > > I've associated with. > > > > And while through 11 years of membership I've caught the bad end of the > > occasional mob mentality a few times (one that made me quit for six > > months...I kinda deserved it...) I've reaped the benefits of this group > more > > than I can even quantify. > > > > I look up to the elders of this list and the SubaruVanagon Yahoo group > > because there is some serious brain power at work around here. Why it's > all > > drawn to Vanagons, I have no idea. But through the lively discourse, > > technical info, life stories, and adventures, I've learned a lot, and > > remained completely entertained by the unique and varied individuals who > > hang out here. > > > > Booty-kissing session over. I'll go back to lurking now. > > > > Joe T. > > > > On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 11:52 AM, Tom Hargrave <thargrav@hiwaay.net> > wrote: > > > >> Phase of the moon....... > >> > >> Tom > >> www.towercooler.com > >> > >> > >> Sent from my Verizon Wireless Phone > >> > >> -----Original Message----- > >> From: Scott Daniel - Turbovans <scottdaniel@TURBOVANS.COM> > >> Sent: Monday, November 08, 2010 12:48 PM > >> To: vanagon@GERRY.VANAGON.COM <vanagon@GERRY.VANAGON.COM> > >> Subject: Re: Snarky and in-groupish > >> > >> lol. > >> right on. > >> but how do they stop them, if they're not there. > >> > >> nobody posts drunk do they ? > >> everybody knows to think carefully before clicking on 'send' ..right !! > >> > >> learned that one the hard way, one could say. > >> > >> I think something's been weird lately ..either the change of seasons, or > >> elections, or sunspots or general concern about the craziness of the > >> species. > >> > >> now if they would all just enjoy Vanagons things would be a lot better. > >> > >> speaking of ... > >> vans for sale that I have - > >> 84 L model, near pristene two tone blue and cream white, Nice simple > >> basic > >> van, no AC, no PS, 4 speed. > >> > >> 82 sunroff diesel vanagon ....freshly rebuilt engine, 124K totla miles, > >> so > >> ding-free it belongs in a museum. > >> > >> 83 rare sunroof 5 speed diesel vanagon, no rust, runs, rebuilt 1.6 TD > >> planned, or engine can go with > >> van as a project. > >> > >> 87 Wolfsburg, ...the first Carat madel. Silver. Factory lower springs, > >> alloys, 3 dented areas ...extra sporty van, no rust. Jump seat, fold > >> out > >> table, rear Z bed ...a super likeable model for a non-camper. > >> > >> 85 Westy GL/Faux Weekender....it's on theSamba. Dailey driver. Fresh > >> valve > >> job and head gaskets on 1.9 wbxr engine , 20 to 21 mpg on highway, Goes > >> well > >> . 4 speed and power steering, leather volvo driver's seat. Just in time > >> for > >> southwest winter desert trips. > >> > >> and about 4 more, including a 83 Eurovan poptop MV with semi-rare 5 > >> speed > >> manual trans. > >> > >> all located in southern Oregon, in the very dry and rust-free Rogue > >> Valley. > >> > >> hey, bring your van here to work on it with my support. > >> > >> stay cozy everyone ! > >> Scott > >> www.turbovans.com > >> ----- Original Message ----- > >> From: "Karl Wolz" <wolzphoto@q.com> > >> To: "'Scott Daniel - Turbovans'" <scottdaniel@TURBOVANS.COM>; > >> <vanagon@GERRY.VANAGON.COM> > >> Sent: Sunday, November 07, 2010 10:00 PM > >> Subject: RE: Snarky and in-groupish > >> > >> > >>> Friends don't let friends post drunk! > >>> > >>> Karl Wolz > >>> > >>> |-----Original Message----- > >>> |From: Vanagon Mailing List [mailto:vanagon@gerry.vanagon.com] On > >> Behalf > >>> Of > >>> |Scott Daniel - Turbovans > >>> |Sent: Sunday, November 07, 2010 4:28 PM > >>> |To: vanagon@GERRY.VANAGON.COM > >>> |Subject: Re: Snarky and in-groupish > >>> | > >>> |Mark, I am so sorry that is your experience. > >>> |and ..anything about 'in group' is a turn-off to me. > >>> | > >>> |and if you're getting chastised or barked at .. > >>> |that's not ok. > >>> | > >>> |if you are referring to what I think you are ... > >>> |seems to me that incident was just a 'hopefully one-time thing' done > >> in > >>> |poor judgment at the time. > >>> | > >>> |it was out of character for the original poster too I think.. > >>> |if it's what I think it is. Never saw anything like that before from > >> that > >>> |person ... > >>> |perhaps stress is a factor. > >>> |( ..oh ...I just notice weirdness happens ...it just does sometime > >>> |unfortunately ) > >>> | > >>> |intending civility and support for all, > >>> |Scott > >>> |----- Original Message ----- > >>> |From: "Mark L. Hineline" <hineline@OCOTILLOFIELD.NET> > >>> |To: <vanagon@GERRY.VANAGON.COM> > >>> |Sent: Saturday, November 06, 2010 4:50 PM > >>> |Subject: Snarky and in-groupish > >>> | > >>> | > >>> |> This list seems to have gotten in-groupish, snarky, and insular > >>> |> relative to what it once was. That's a shame, because it used to be > >> a > >>> |> key resource for learning how to take care of a Vanagon and for > >>> |> becoming part of a community. It still has the reputation, but > >> gosh, > >>> |> if you're not one of the in group you get chastised for asking > >>> |> questions, for making comments, for any participation at all. > >>> |> > >>> |> Mark > >>> |> 1982 Westy > >>> > >> > >> ________________________________ > >> > >> No virus found in this message. > >> Checked by AVG - www.avg.com > >> Version: 10.0.1153 / Virus Database: 424/3244 - Release Date: 11/08/10 > >> > > > > > > > > -- > > Joe T. > > '85 Wolfsburg Westy Subie 2.2 > -- roger w From Proverbs: Under three things the earth trembles, under four it cannot bear up: a servant who becomes king ... ---------------------------------------------------------- Explore printed work at: http://www.prliving.ca/ View the growing list of video work at: http://revver.com/find/video/?query=LastonLastof&search_on=owners
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