Jim, VW has them with wire attached.  From my <www.frankcondelli.com/sales.htm> webpage:  Those are VW retail prices.  You can also find just the terminals here: <http://www.delcity.net>

Wire for relay holder, w/2 female spade clip terminal ends, 14 gauge, 12" long, 000 979 204 -  $7.30 
Wire for relay holder, w/2 female spade clip terminal ends, 12 gauge, 12" long, 000 979 402  - $11.40 

On 2013-05-02, at 10:37 PM, Automatic digest processor <LISTSERV@GERRY.VANAGON.COM> wrote:

> Where does one get the kind of female spade connectors with the little tang
> on the side that keeps them in the plastic relay mounts that VW uses?

Cheers,    

Frank Condelli
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