Been there, Chuck. I feel for you, brother. But!! You have a new baby, and
whether she/he is retarded or not, you must love her/ him and take up
mechanics again or hire one of those really expensive nannies!!!! 
Maybe you can start over?
 Can you get your bread back??
    Did you fall in love???
       If it spoke i to you, ya gotta stand by your  v  a  n  : )

rachel